Weepandsweep
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Lots of words so TLDR:
I’m dating an Air Force CSO, could our relationship work if become a naval aviator or NFO?
So the last year I have been applying to OCS, I work as a school counselor at a middle school I have not told anyone in my life about this since I didn’t want anyone’s options, I had to do it for me. Of course, life works in mysterious ways and over the last 6 months I started dating an guy, thought it was going to be a short term thing but turns out he is the male version of me. One problem, he is about to start training as a CSO in the Air Force and go to OTS (they have some long wait times to go to OTS lol) I want to go rated (Pilot or NFO but probably NFO bc I don’t think I’ll get a vision waiver for pilot) and have had this dream well before meeting him. Is there a way to make this work? Co-locate during my sea tour potentially? I know it may not even last forever, but I want to try. I have felt a call to serve my whole life but I think I will get out after my commitment and start a family probably. I understand especially in the Navy there’s a view of “Navy above all, including family” but I just want to know if this has been done in the past and feasibility.
I’m dating an Air Force CSO, could our relationship work if become a naval aviator or NFO?
So the last year I have been applying to OCS, I work as a school counselor at a middle school I have not told anyone in my life about this since I didn’t want anyone’s options, I had to do it for me. Of course, life works in mysterious ways and over the last 6 months I started dating an guy, thought it was going to be a short term thing but turns out he is the male version of me. One problem, he is about to start training as a CSO in the Air Force and go to OTS (they have some long wait times to go to OTS lol) I want to go rated (Pilot or NFO but probably NFO bc I don’t think I’ll get a vision waiver for pilot) and have had this dream well before meeting him. Is there a way to make this work? Co-locate during my sea tour potentially? I know it may not even last forever, but I want to try. I have felt a call to serve my whole life but I think I will get out after my commitment and start a family probably. I understand especially in the Navy there’s a view of “Navy above all, including family” but I just want to know if this has been done in the past and feasibility.