I was in the Civil Air Patrol as a kid in the cadet program, and while I learned a lot about military bearing and the military in general, I had a sour experience when I was involved. The CAP does have some cool stuff to offer as far as flying goes -- if you have your PPL and you can get checked out in one of their aircraft, it is a great opportunity to fly for cheap. However, I think that a lot of people in the Civil Air Patrol overlook the "Auxiliary" in their title. A lot of the cadets took it a bit too seriously and considered themselves to be a member of a real military organization, and thus they treated their "subordinates" with a lot of disrespect. In my opinion, for cadets there is no difference between the CAP and the Boy Scouts...
The senior members in my unit also took their positions a little too seriously. I have heard horor stories of 20-year old "2nd Lieutenants" who are "rated pilots" walking around airshows complete with flight suit -- and the "fighter tuck" in their c~nt caps, sectional charts stuffed in the leg pockets of the flight suit, and a large compliment of pens in their shoulder pockets -- and have walked up to real Air Force and Navy pilots to try to "fit in." I have also heard of higher-ranking senior members actually trying to make real military personell salute them, which is friggin ridiculous. You have got to draw the line somewhere...
That being said, the CAP does provide a SAR mission that is pretty useful -- you can knock the CAP all you want until you have to deadstick an aircraft in the woods somewhere and they come and pluck you out. And if you are willing to put up with some of the BS that comes with the "Auxiliary," it would be a great opportunity to build some flight time.
If any of yall have some funny CAP stories from airshows/etc. you'd like to share, I'd love to hear them...