Both times I did my DODMERB (yes, I applied to USNA that many times), it didn't seem to be any more stringent than your average long form flight physical. Pretty simple and straight forward from what I remember.It wasn't too bad from what I recall, just a very thorough physical.
I'm trying to remember, was there a blood test?
Maybe you should try eHarmony or something....The female physical has always been a mystery to me.