I just graduated TBS in June and I'm married. Basically, I would get up around 0500 to be at work by 0600 (on deck time varied, but not by much). I would usually get home between 1800 and 2000. It all depends on what time you secure. Usually the day would end around 1600, but because the company is "student" run, you've got to wait for some dipstick to get all his "ducks in a row" before he would go to the CO at the end of the day in order to "secure" the company. Then, of course, the individual SPCs (Staff Platoon Commanders) had to secure the individual platoons. Academics weren't that difficult at TBS. I did most of my studying while waiting around in the evening to be secured. Weekends were recovery time only for me. I would lay in bed at night asleep (all through the week) and my muscles would twitch (literally raise my arm off the bed!) (my wife would get so upset at me!) because of how exhausted I was all of the time. The second my head hit the pillow I would be out like a light. So, on the weekends, don't overload your husband with activities. We would go out and eat a nice dinner (usually on Friday), we went to DC a couple of times to tool around, there's actually a lot to see in that area (we went to Kings Dominion once, Norfolk once, NY City during New Years)but didn't do anything on Sunday. I would spend all day Sunday preparing myself (water and rest) and my gear (iron cammies, polish boots, haircut, shopping (food for the week at school, clean my pack, etc.). It was long, rough, and most of us hated nearly every minute of it. It was tough on my wife, but she ended up meeting a couple of wives (plus she worked full time) and that helped a lot in passing the time. I can't imagine having a baby too, it would make things that much more difficult. But, you just have to bare with it, and gut it out. I wish the best for you two! Things are tough, it'll test your relationship a little (especially if he brings his "gripes" home with him), but it's just part of the "big picture." You'll look back and have memories and experiences, and it'll have been worth it.