I'm about to commission very soon; however, I'm curious as to what will happen with my relationships with my friends back home. Many of them are enlisted in several different branches. Also, I'm curious about my currently relationship with my bf because he is currently enlisted as well. He is planning on getting out after his contract or getting his commission in the navy as well, but that wont be till 2018. Would we really need to end our relationship before I commission or even get married? Is there not a grace period?