I really want to help answer your question, but it displays such a lack of understanding of the entire process, I can't figure out where to begin. Read some of the threads on flight school, do some searches and then if you have some questions please ask.
Just wondering on when you make your "dream sheet" of where you want to be stationed, would the fact that your wife is a Texas certified lawyer carry any weight at all? Also, which Texas base is the best pick from anyone who has been stationed here?
ouch... probably best to get all my stupid questions out of the way on here i guess. thanks for the advice