I’ll definitely PM you, thanks! And yes I have talked to the OCM. They don’t seem too interested in my applying to FAO, probably because I’m not competitive as a JO at the end of my first sea tour, but they have answered some basic questions. I figured it doesn’t hurt to apply early though, and keep applying for as long as I can.
As for general questions, I’m interested to know how you get your first “real job” as an FAO. So say you get accepted, then do they then send you to CA for your degree in international relations? And then, if required, keep you there for language school for your region?
After that do you get to request a type of job, or will they delegate you into a spot? The HR page mentions Security and Defense Attache, but those are pretty general terms. I imagine every position, with the exception of someone who works in an embassy office for instance, will be traveling most of the time for work.
And lastly, do you have some semblance of work-life balance? Some people describe jobs as “living the dream” but then you realize they have a highly skewed vision of what having time to yourself looks like. Being overseas has made me realize I need to have time with my family in the states at least twice a year, or it feels like they hardly exist in my life.
Of course! Fair warning, essay to follow.
That’s the right attitude to have. If the OCM didn’t mention it, the community values repeated interest, and will definitely note it on subsequent lat transfer boards if you don’t pick up the first time.
Your initial FAO progression will be completely dependent on your timing/source community performance, but your understanding of the generic track is pretty close. Once you get picked up, you'll be assigned a region (by COCOM) within a few weeks of the board. You'll likely only get a choice of one or two jobs every time you're up for orders, as the community is so small that detailing has ripple effects.
Assuming you don't already have a regionally focused master's degree, they'll either send you to NPS (most common) or another school (the Marshall Center in Germany is one option). After you're complete with that program, you'll go to DLI, either in Monterey (for languages like Russian, Mandarin, Spanish, etc.), or in DC (for lower demand languages like German).
Your next stop will depend on your follow-on job. There are three lines of work in FAOdom; being a Defense Attache, working in an office of Security Cooperation, and working on a staff (COCOM, Fleet, DC, etc.). As you progress in the community, it's assumed that you'll have experience in all three lines of work.
As a Defense Attache (working in an embassy), you'll be one of the ambassador's military advisors, be the primary U.S. military representative to the partner nation, and coordinate U.S. millitary activities in country. You will be the (or one of) the SMEs for the military chain of command on the goings-on in your country. Attaches typically focus more on the military-diplomat side of things in comparison to the Security Cooperation folks. You'll go to a 13 week training course at DIA called JMAS (Joint Military Attache School,
https://www.dia.mil/Portals/110/Documents/About/JMAS/JMAS_Brochure_19May2023.pdf) and some other shorter training courses enroute to your embassy. I haven't been an attache yet, but I've heard the work schedule can be pretty fluid. Your travel schedule will vary based on the size of/goings-on in the partner nation, DIA-imposed requirements, and other factors outside of your control (VIP visits, exercises, etc.). As you get more senior/have had success in the Defense Attache Service (DAS), you'll likely become the Senior Defense Official (SDO) in a country, which means you'll be the senior U.S. military representative. Here's a link to the Navy Attache page, which gives a decent overview and has a list of Navy attache billets worldwide:
https://www.mynavyhr.navy.mil/Career-Management/Detailing/Officer/Attache/
For the Security Cooperation (SC) line of work (working in an embassy), you'll work as either the Navy Programs Officer or the Security Cooperation Officer (head of the office), depending on the size of country and portfolio. Your job is to help the partner nation develop their military capabilities and to facilitate the sale of U.S. produced military equipment. As such, you'll spend a lot of time meeting with the partner to determine capability gaps and then helping them create a plan to build capability through training, equipment, exercise participation, etc. You'll spend a ton of time interacting with the partner and traveling around the country, but that will typically be in the form of site visits, exercise planning conferences, etc. Your schedule will largely be a normal workday, but will vary based on partner needs and things like exercises, conferences, or site visits.
Your role on a staff will vary depending on where you're stationed. For example, I'm a country desk officer in the J5 at AFRICOM. I work with the military team in country to write our strategy to help the partner reach their military goals, make sure the strategy aligns with operational efforts, coordinate security cooperation with my country, and serve as the SME on staff for all things related to my country portfolio. Like on any staff, it can be a bunch of busy work, but it has the perk of as much travel to the continent as I want, and a pretty stable work schedule. On other staffs you may serve as a foreign military sales SME, a defense policy SME, or the security cooperaiton coordinator for the theater, among others.
On your work-life balance question, it totally will depend on the job you're in, and what's happening in that particular country. Overall, your workload and schedule will generally be less intense than an operational tour, unless you're working in a hot spot (e.g FAOs in Israel, Ukraine, DRC, etc. are basically working 24/7). Most people at embassies are able to take leave a few times a year, but no guarantees on having the time to make it back to the states. Staff life is way more flexible, and I'd plan on that being a 9-5 gig unless there's a crisis. All that being said, 70% of FAO tours are overseas, so I would be prepared/prepare your family for only occasional trips back to the states.