I followed up with my chain. We have a lot going on, so it is understandable that CO/XO forgot about it. We also have a new XO, so there might be another reason.
We are about to deploy, so I don't want to give them the date as I don't want them to think that I am trying to get out of deployment. I will let my DIVO make that call to keep me on deployment or let me go before that.
Thank you for the good advise about the "act like I belong there". I will have to practice doing that. However, since I am still enlisted, I don't want to jump the chain, especially on a big deck.