Naval Officer
FIRST, aviator second.
If you want to go back to the cockpit, you may have to suck up that staff or disassociated sea tour.
I had an unusual career:
VT-10/86
VA-128 A-6 RAG
VA-95 A-6 fleet JO tour
VAQ-129 EA-6B transistion syllabus
VAQ-138 JO tour
VAQ-129 RAG instructor
VAQ-138 Department Head
That took me from 1990-2004. 14 years flying with only one year on shore. 2200+ hours in 138 months of operational flying, 485 traps. Almost 16hr/month average.
After my DH tour, I did 3 years shore at NWDC (1 of them in Iraq), 2 years TACRON, and I am finishing my last year in the Navy back at NWDC.
The guys with 3,000 , 4,000 or even 5,000 hours are few and far between. When I started, a 1000 hours in a tour was the norm, when I left the EA-6B community, guys were averaging 200 hours a year.
Edit:
My most rewarding tour (notice, I did not say most fun) was the year I spent as an IA in Iraq working CREW (Counter Radio Controlled IED Electronic Warfare). Not flying, working with grunts, organizing equipment installs, workings with ops folks and training Marines. I am convinced that the work we did out there saved lives.
I'll repeat:
Naval Officer
FIRST, aviator second.
If you just want to get lots of hours, stick with the airlines. Of course, airline pilots don't get this view (VR-1355, just north of Bumping Lake, 200 feet agl @ 420+ knots).