I just want to figure out when I will have my stuff delivered by the movers... My wife will be working back at my home of record so accompanied or not doesn't matter too much as long as I can get my stuff.
If you burn your full move without bringing your wife along, and she keeps a bunch of stuff with her, the Navy won't pay to have it moved later, which would be especially dumb if you get orders from Whiting Field to anywhere else in Florida.