No one can really "call it what you want". If you call it anything but an insurrection or attempted coup or assault on the Constitution or any other loaded extreme description, you are accused of giving the rioters a pass or making excuses for them. No in between. You suggested excuse making above. Other than that, agree with the rest of your post.
I was trying to point out that whatever folks called it serious crimes were committed that day, no matter how folks try and excuse the criminal actions of hundreds charged so far. I think several posts here prove that pretty well.
As for your claim about folks "giving the rioters a pass or making excuses for them", I think several posters here prove that point.