OK. I get that. But still feel like "seniority is an equalizer" is not exactly true even in your context. The biggest O-6 asshole, and some are reservist, not active duty retired, that is an airline Captain can still lord over an FO who has a better number on the company seniority list. I mean I now get what you were getting at. Just say'in.
No I am not his big brother. But I am senior in years on the line and commissioned. So, based on the previous posts, you would make you our junior. Think I could encourage you to sit quietly while the adults talk.