I am in the same boat as Icarus, basically, without the "alleged" drug use. I have been straightedge my whole life, no drugs, no alcohol, nothing...not once. I'm 22 at the moment.
My Dad is very similiar, it sounds, and because of him, I moved out at 16, and lived on my own. I have quite a bit of debt from those 2-3 years, that is still with me today...less than $5000, but it's there, nonetheless. I defaulted on 3 credit cards, $500, $500, and $1000, which I used primarily to buy groceries and pay my rent. So hopefully if I can explain that, it will mean something...who knows.
Good luck to you and I, Icarus.
My Dad is very similiar, it sounds, and because of him, I moved out at 16, and lived on my own. I have quite a bit of debt from those 2-3 years, that is still with me today...less than $5000, but it's there, nonetheless. I defaulted on 3 credit cards, $500, $500, and $1000, which I used primarily to buy groceries and pay my rent. So hopefully if I can explain that, it will mean something...who knows.
Good luck to you and I, Icarus.