The consequences of lying are serious. From clearance denial all the way up to prosecution and prison time. Worse, others see you as lacking integrity.
I'm not saying lying is ok if I don't get caught. The post was to see if disclosing this stuff would hurt my application and how seriously the Navy takes the SF86. Clearly, the answers are "it would" and "very seriously."
So then the question becomes: Is the SF86 a document for rooting out "guilty conscience types" and people who can't keep their mouth shut? Or is it a "get your story straight and hold your peace" tool.
Or is it a moral document akin to confessional where if you lie God already knows and you're going to hell anyways