I believe the word FAILURE as used in the title, should be replaced by "non-select". Becoming a Naval Officer is near always a very competitive proposition. There are usually many more well qualified applicants than available slots, as is the case for desirable positions in the civilian world.I got told no from OCS twice, the third time I got selected for #2 choice of NFO before I heard if I got #1 choice pilot or not, I took the NFO job without thinking twice. Fast forward 8 months later and the 2nd week in A pool I get a call from NASC skipper's secretary to come in his office in 30 minutes, CO says the navy is short pilots and I'm qualified for the slot if I want it, took it and the rest is history. Obviously things worked for me in the end, but I wanted to serve and fly jets, I wasn't going to give up the potential back seat in a hornet while I waited around some more especially since I had got 2 rejections already.
Just keep applying if you don't get it, apply until you reach the age limit if that's what it takes. Like other's have said, if you want to serve in any capacity then options are greater, if you only want to fly you better have a shit hot ASTB and GPA, and some aviation experience won't hurt too. Those things worked for me.
Non-select is not an 'end of the dream' failure, as the Navy allows repeat applications as long as you remain qualified. You are allowed test retakes within certain parameters to improve scores, plus adding references and other experiences/accomplishments or qualifications to polish up your next package. The example cited by JD81 above proves that non-select is only a failure... when you fail to gear up and try again. The list of Naval Officers who didn't make the first application cut, is long and illustrious!
"If at first you don't succeed; try, try again"!
BzB