Recreational ORM is TRA, and it sucks. I keep telling myself it will be different in the fleet. Right now at flight school, we have to tell our advisors what we are doing every weekend, and get permission to do anything "risky."
God help the student who says he is going to study all weekend, then decides to go boating with some friends.
Dude...which HT are you in...wait don't answer that...because I know that we don't do that crap in MY squadron.
Do whatever you want. It's flight school, not the academy...but in doing that, be prepared for the consequences...
I know responsibility sucks...They should pay you more.