One way to do that is by joining the various community Facebook groups for where you'll be living. You can get a real sense of the good, the bad and the ugly by sifting through these groups.
I trust that you are on "whidbey island drama and gossip"
In all seriousness Rob, great idea. What you say about your volunteer experiences makes me wince thinking about my boys who will turn their noses up at about any meal served to them. I'm not a big user of the term "privilege" but dear god, do they have it. Maybe a trip to the local shelter would make them appreciate what they have. Thanks for giving me that idea.