Young Gents,
I know I've said this in previous posts but I'll try and put it in a different way.
So- you think you are going to cause irreperable harm to an employer if you leave on short notice right? In fact, more negative effect if you leave soon after you arrive right? OK, that in itself is a good thing because you now realize you DO have an effect on others. But at the same time you also need to look at this reality from the other side. i.e. if you leave on short notice- Will the company tumble into the abyss? If you leave -will they have to declare Chapter 11? Likely not. In fact they will likely have other, dare I say, "candidates" in place to fill the potentially open requirements?
I assure you that if you leave a CIVPAC job on very short notice, you are not going to be the first, nor the last person to leave under these circumstances (THIS FISCAL YEAR!). In fact, I dare say that if you bail on short notice- you are likely to be viewed as the one who takes "your life" more seriously than your peers. That said- Unless you are definitely going back to this "original employer" after a DOR or NPQ, just leave now and statistically no one will ever remember you a couple years from now anyway. People bail on good jobs for any number of reasons and in the case of AOCS/OCS you are likely going to be one of the few folks that the employer will actually admire for leaving early and choosing the path of most resistance when your remaining peers will statistically choose the path of least resistance, i.e. stay when the situation might not be the best fit.
Clear as mud? Call me/PM me and I'll clarify.
When you are young and conscientious, (which you should be) you naturally have the tendancy to believe that you are not expendable. The reality is that you ARE most likely expendable. Say you go with a Fortune 50 company with impeccable credentials- I assure you that you ARE VERY expendable, no matter how good you truly are. Don't sweat it. Take the best job you can get at the time. Upon acceptance to a commisioning source- explain why you are leaving to attend AOCS/OCS. Odds are that they will likley be VERY open and encouraging to your decision. If they aren't open to your choice- you now know that this was a company that you likely shouldn't have been working for in the first place.
I work for a Fortune 100 company in the transportation sector and I assure that if I bailed here at 20 yrs- no one would bat an eye other than the central couple dozen folks or so that I work with on a daily basis. In fact, if you look at the retirement package offerered to the youger group here- you would certainly agree that UPS is trying to attrite us old fogies for the just out of college types and just keep them for 5 or 7 years. If I experienced the same typical USGov bureacratic crapola here that I've now experienced- -say 10 years ago- I would have been gone in a heartbeat. The writing is on the walls folks. It's been here for a while and it's not going away anytime soon. Today is a very different labor philosophical/climate than that of say 10 years ago, let alone 20 or 30 years ago. Portfolio retirement is a reality and the lifelong pension jobs are shrinking day by day. Look out for yourself- the NAVY AND private employers mean well but the bottom line is that you are responsible for your own future and No One else.
Remember our previous company mantra "We Run the Tightest Ship in the Shipping Business"? Well now its all about who can manufacture the best numbers on paper. Not the best sales performers- but the best perfomers on paper. Very sad to see it but it's a factual reality. Sad to see it evolve this way but so many of my customers are going via the same way. It's definitely a national trend.
I apologize for the length of my post, but the thread itself and subsequent posts could lead our finest young folks into a false sense of guilt for leaving a CIVI job prior to OCS. Yes- It IS a higher calling. If you don't believe it now, you will believe it when your sailors look at you for leadership in the fleet.
End of transmission- Seek further guidance via PM or Alpha Bravo(administrators). Rant Off.