Ok, tomorrow is the big day.
A4s- Honestly I thought about going to the CO a few times. On the one hand I felt like he could tell me to my face if he wanted to axe me, but on the other, he's the CO and I'm an ensign. That, and I read the letter he wrote in my packet, he didn't say anything that was untrue or unfair. He gave me a few extra shots in-house and I still ended up with this meeting tomorrow.
That said, I think the whole thing about the instructor offering advice to look elsewhere may have been misinterpreted a bit? There's really no accounting for a lack of vocal tone on the internet. He was (and is) well intentioned and frank. He was one of the people that gave me a pink sheet and I still went to find him later for advice. The system works, I'm being owned by it now and I still think it works. If I stay, I stay and kick ass, if I don't, hey, I have a plan for ass kicking in other places. Everyone wins.