Again, not sure why you insist on the personal attack.
I have never stated, nor implied being a victim or anything else.
I clearly have stated what life was like for the vast majority of those I personally know during the late '70 through the early '90s.
The remainder of your post is an opinion, that I have read, and can comment on or not.
Apparently, service life has significantly changed in the past few decades.
So I do not disagree with your comments, but recognize that we have had different experiences during different decades.