The waiver I ended up getting was a little more complicated than I originally thought, but, as of today, I am NOW officially commissioned as a pilot. I kind of regret my initial post on how much I didn't want to go SWO-Nuke and was frantically trying to be a pilot only to find out it worked out in the end. Here are the thing I've learned during this time. Number 1: Don't post things on airwarriors when you are an emotional wreck because it will follow you around when you post things years down the road. For example, a lot of people seem to know who I am now. Number 2 (and most importantly): Be optimistic! Even a few hours after my original post, I went to dinner with a few important people in the Nuke community and became very excited about the opportunity. Then, when I found out I was going to be a pilot, of course, I was thrilled. Then, when I was disqualified and most likely going SWO, I did my research and became excited about that community too! Now, I am back in my niche and overjoyed! It's funny how this all turned out and I know that people pulled some strings for me to get me here.
The bottom line for all those people who get what they don't want at first is to be optimistic. When one door closes, another one opens. And you're in the Navy! Anything you do in the Navy is going to be an amazing experience no matter what it is, that is, as long as you make it.
Now I think this thread may have been a good idea. The title is catchy so hopefully everyone will take away some of the good advice that was given to me.