Neither is flight school, but you don't have to repay that if you DOR.
I really don't want to get all "damn kids these days," but this is what comes of never holding kids accountable for anything. This guy swore an oath, one that included a line about no mental reservations. Now he feels entitled to say, "I changed my mind," and lawyers up when he doesn't get his way. Not hard to believe; his world is one of helicopter parents badgering teachers to raise grades, or sue the little league when Jimmy doesn't get to play, etc etc.
Goddamn it, you're not always entitled to get what you want, when you want it, no matter how strongly you feel about it. Make a decision, make a commitment, then honor your commitment, even if you feel later like it was the wrong decision.
Well, whatever. This kid'll be out job-hunting in the worst job market in a century, saddled with a $100K+ debt to Uncle Sam. I imagine it'll be a nice lesson in learning to live with the consequences of your actions.
Totally agree, Uncle Fester!!!
I flew with a guy who in 1970 applied for Conscientious Objector and was approved and returned to civilian life. I knew and was friends with him and think he was vey sincere, but he was commissioned via ROTC, full scholarship to Princeton, and he didn't have to repay a dime. That's not right any way you look at it. I'm glad to hear this submariner will have to repay.