exNavyOffRec
Well-Known Member
My parents were always big on instilling "trust but verify" in me when I was a kid, but obviously that won't fly in the Navy so it's something i'll be actively working on.
I also apparently need to work on how I write my responses, because that is the second time someone has perceived an attitude in my response, where none was intended. I would truly appreciate it if you could show me what parts of my response seemed to be snapping or defensive. I really need to learn what kinds of things I shouldn't say in the military.
Trust but verify is great when dealing with subordinates but you don't really do that with superiors. If I had something time sensitive when I would drop it off I would say something like "Sir can I come back to pick this up on XX" and then he would be expecting me.