If married people (or prospective married people) are getting hooked up when others aren't, that's complete BS. Kinder gentler, I suppose. I feel like channeling A4s.
Brett
I don't think it's as much of the "kindler, gentler", although that may play into it.
Moreover, it's economics. A servicemember with dependents would be entitled a PCS for the move to API and then at least a partial, if not full, PCS to Corpus or Vance, if that's where they get sent. If that same guy gets PCS'd to API and then goes to Whiting, with Whiting and P-cola being so close, they only get one PCS. I'd say it'd be safe to wager at least 90% of married guys get sent to Whiting. Doing it this way saves the Navy a ton of cash each year.