I don't necessarily have a problem with him not going to Arlington on Memorial Day. I do agree that it is a perception issue: 1 trip to Afghanistan in 16 months as President, and adding a military greeeting as an afterthought on his Christmas press conference (only after a reporter asked him if he had anything for the military).
We are an after thought to his administration, but he isn't the one who sent us to war. Bottom Line look at the facts: Republicans talk big, but they are the ones who send us to war, cut our VA benefits, and attempt to reduce our payraises. Just look at McCain's voting record towards veterans, and what Bush did for us as President (aside from the post 9-11 GI Bill).
I agree with Brett. They are all fucking retards. Quit bitching, and bring us home.