Good call on the white suit unless it is a uniform. But if you/she wanted you to wear white you could always go in a white jacket and black pants, a la James Bond. That's what my husband had his groomsmen wear so they could sort of match.I might be in a similar situation, and while I wish I could wear a uniform it will probably be before OCS. So I guess I could wear a white suit and pretend...
Or not cause that would be ugly.
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