Agree with the wise words of these last few posts. Here's how it worked for me.
Left the squadron as the #2 EP, Instructor Pilot, Flight O, MC, all that good stuff.
XO advised me to be an Admiral's Aide or take a hard fill.
CO said,"There's a PEP billet. You are nuts if you don't take it."
XO said, "You are ruining your career".
I selected DH in a year when the select rate was well below 50%.
Meanwhile I know guys who did all the right things and didn't select. I know guys who have taken every hardfill/IA/opportunity to kiss ass and still didn't end up where they wanted to be.
So, for my 2 cents worth, take jobs you think you will enjoy, because you will spend a lot of hours doing them. If you get a crappy job, try and find some pride to do it well because hopefully someone will notice and care (your sailors will certainly do both). When it comes time for selection, hope you are in a year group where the select rate is about 90% because honestly, that is about the percentage of people who are qualified for the DH job (notice I didn't say would be good at it). If not, be honored that you are in such a selective peer group and let the chips fall where they may. In the mean time, don't sacrifice the important things (your family, your friends, you sanity or your pride) to satisfy some elusive "career track" that doesn't exist. I was told if I didn't do JPME I wouldn't select. I did and I still haven't finished it. My year it seemed like a Master's Degree was the golden ticket (which I happened to have, but not because the Navy necessarily wanted me to get one. I got it because I assumed I wouldn't select). Point being, you never know. Look out for yourself without screwing your buddies and then do your best to be okay with whatever happens. There are happy people who don't select and sad people who do. (hey some of us thought we would get to take the money and run). Don't sweat what you can't control and you'll be much better off.
/soap box
Left the squadron as the #2 EP, Instructor Pilot, Flight O, MC, all that good stuff.
XO advised me to be an Admiral's Aide or take a hard fill.
CO said,"There's a PEP billet. You are nuts if you don't take it."
XO said, "You are ruining your career".
I selected DH in a year when the select rate was well below 50%.
Meanwhile I know guys who did all the right things and didn't select. I know guys who have taken every hardfill/IA/opportunity to kiss ass and still didn't end up where they wanted to be.
So, for my 2 cents worth, take jobs you think you will enjoy, because you will spend a lot of hours doing them. If you get a crappy job, try and find some pride to do it well because hopefully someone will notice and care (your sailors will certainly do both). When it comes time for selection, hope you are in a year group where the select rate is about 90% because honestly, that is about the percentage of people who are qualified for the DH job (notice I didn't say would be good at it). If not, be honored that you are in such a selective peer group and let the chips fall where they may. In the mean time, don't sacrifice the important things (your family, your friends, you sanity or your pride) to satisfy some elusive "career track" that doesn't exist. I was told if I didn't do JPME I wouldn't select. I did and I still haven't finished it. My year it seemed like a Master's Degree was the golden ticket (which I happened to have, but not because the Navy necessarily wanted me to get one. I got it because I assumed I wouldn't select). Point being, you never know. Look out for yourself without screwing your buddies and then do your best to be okay with whatever happens. There are happy people who don't select and sad people who do. (hey some of us thought we would get to take the money and run). Don't sweat what you can't control and you'll be much better off.
/soap box