sndyson
New Member
Ok, my 2 cents which isn't worth that much...
I'm not going to tell you to chill out...I think that's been covered.
Feeling that something outside of your control is keeping you from what you want it not the best feeling.
Considering your DWI, I was sort of surprised you were given a waiver considering the abundance of qualified applicants without the waivers. I'm not saying that to be mean - it's actually a compliment that the CO thought that much of you to grant you a waiver. I'm sure it gave you a huge boost. Now as great as that was to hear that you were being granted a waiver, it however did not translate into his immediately dropping everything to call you. He's a CO. He commands a unit. He's got a bigger list of things to get accomplished that particular day other than your waiver for your DWI. The fact that you received a call within a couple of weeks is pretty good timing in my opinion (not that you asked for it). I'm also quite certain he was unaware of any deadline you had riding on his phone call.
You asked "so what am I to do now?" My best advice is to do everything you can to improve your package until you figure out when you can apply for the next board. Also, check with your recruiter to see which documents are time sensitive...meaning, ask when your LoR's, interviews, waivers, etc will expire so you can keep that in mind as time ticks away so you aren't faced with another deadline and all of these things to "handle" at the last minute (or even the last month). Because as you already have learned the hard way, if you waited until 2 weeks before the deadline to get something into your package....then you've already waited too long.
My other piece of advice is don't even think about pointing fingers at anyone...you are very right about that part. Even your phone call to NPC to get the OCS number is extremely tricky. Be very careful and proceed here with caution with tomorrow's phone call to OCS help desk. I would not contact them at all. It's a VERY SMALL Navy and everyone will remember the a-hole that called to complain because he didn't get his DWI waiver in on time to get picked up for OCS. Is that will what will be explained on the phone when you call, no, probably not. Will it matter? No, because that's what they will hear.
Best thing is to suck it up, accept what's occurred, and make sure you never let it happen again. Phone calls and bitterness won't cut it. Act like the officer you want to become, and take ownership of what's happened and make the best out of the situation and additional time you have been given. Do search other options, other branches, other programs within the Navy that may be compatible, etc - but do use all of your time to improve your package. Know that everyone else that didn't make this board will be doing the same and they will be your competition when the next board is scheduled.
Good luck to you,
Charlie
Thank you Charlie for the most useful comment yet, I didn't want to make the concession of sucking it up and waiting for the next go around but, short of a miracle, this seems to be the most likely case. I'm glad you were able to agree with me on a number of bases, everyone else seems to think I'm asking some grand favor of the Navy when I KNOW that at this point I pretty much don't even exist to them (which, at this point, is nothing short of expected). I will definitely try to incorporate your advice on other things, and I appreciate the actually genuine feedback. Thanks again!