This is actually my first post gentlemen. I've monitored the Airwarrior forums for a couple of years now, it's an outstanding Underground information source.
I did PLC Jrs 2nd incr. 2007. PRK Feb 2009, Srs summer 2009. Graduated college Aug 2010 with mechanical engineering. Went through the same NAMI BS as all of you, RFA paperwork lost at one point, NAMI and BUMED telling me different things with waivers, the whole 9 yards. Finally commissioned July 2011. Assuming class pickup, I should be in Charlie 3-12 for TBS. For those of you keeping track at home, that's 19 months from graduation.
Waiting sucks. All I can say is: get used to it. Remember what you want to do. Don't lose sight of the prize. Use the time you have to get into the best shape you can. Read the CMC reading list, take a foreign language if you feel hyper motivated. Travel. Think of all your buddies to took a year off to find themselves or whatever, and how, when they get back to the real world, they will have to fight for jobs against people who are fresh graduates. You won't. Realize that as much as you want to get to your chosen career as a Naval Aviator, this is basically a free vacation to do whatever the hell you want beforehand (within reason). You can't do anything to speed up the process. Use the opportunity to better yourself.
Personally, I just spent 6 weeks in Argentina and Chile hostel-jumping. Go make your own adventure. The Corps wouldn't have commissioned you if they took you as an individual who watched life from the sidelines.
... who wants to help me down off this soapbox