Neither can you. You've never even met me, so you certainly can't talk about whether or not I "put out", or my knowledge/performance/whatever. Statement of fact.
The Navy is predominantly a male organization. So when you, another male, say "It SUCKS..." and then say that you have to "put out," it's not a big leap to make a gay joke. And when I say "you can't tell us about that yet," some would argue that it's pretty clear, after you say you put out, that I'm talking about "Don't Ask, Don't tell."
Let me know when you want me to explain the story of how "Who" is actually on first and "What" is actually on second, some time.