Have any of you ever thought the gay guy "might" just come to work, be a professional and go home?
I'm sorry, this is making my head hurt. And YES I agree.
I don't understand the argument in general of safety, looking, oogling, and sexual orientation. Probably because I don't care.
I am female and have had both men and women hit on me WHILE on deployment and in the civilian world. I don't care. If a women makes and advance on me I turn her down. If a man makes and advance on me I turn him down(sorry, Im married). I don't understand why it's such a big deal if someone of the same sex may or may not be interested in you.
I know that I have showered in open bays with lesbians. Again, I don't care. I do my business and get out of there. I do not feel threatened or grossed out. Why does is seem that men cannot adapt this train of thought too?
I have had a man come up behind me and physically touch me starting to rub my shoulders or something...I just move and say thanks but no thanks. And I have done the same thing when a woman once started to rub my leg. It's all a matter of proffesionalism, manners and self-esteem of who I am. Hell, anyone that may find my attractive by appearance I find flattering, but just because it may be someone of the same sex does not send me into the ewwww factor. Also, if either gender were to come up to me and say, for example grab me inappropriately I would probably smack the hell out of them, regardless of their gender.
I really wish that everyone would stop worrying about everyone else unless it starts affecting the job we are trying to do. Once it does, then it's time to persue and punish accordingly.
I joined the military to do a job. Yes we all come from different walks of life. It has been interesting to meet and come to know all sorts of different people. If I learn that someone has beliefs, ideas, hobbies, preferences that I don't agree with or believe I politely exclude myself from the conversations.
And to be blunt honestly I would not care if I had to berth and shower with the opposite sex either! But maybe that's just me. I know I'm not the norm.
I just think I have more important things to worry about than who he/she is having fun with in the bedroom.
**stepping off soapbox..sry**