Yes, I understand this and even stated it in my post. Your anecdote notwithstanding, the move away from homework is a broad national trend.
You work in DC. Do you live in VA? All of my friends who live in the state describe a similar circumstance to what you describe... A stark difference to what's being done in the NE.
Yes, and my experience is in line with the folks I know who's kids go to other local VA and MD school districts.