I just got out this past September with a little over 13 years active service and making about 110K (this includes all benefits). To go from that with the strong potential to make less than half of that is pretty frightening to say the least. I knew that whatever new career I got into, I wanted it to be in some sort of sales. I wanted....or shall I dare to say, needed....to have some level of control over how much money I make.
There is something to be said about the peace of mind one has when they can expect a certain amount of money to be deposited in their bank account on a bi-weekly basis. However, there's also something to be said for the freedom you have when operating as an entrepeneur. Yes, it's more risky no doubt. But just like in the military, you acknowledge the risk and put various controls in place to mitigate the hazzards.
I've been told many times just how stupid I was for getting out and that I should have suffered through the remaining years for that covetted retirement check each month. Sorry, but my sanity isn't for sale. What I politely explain to people is that barring any national emergency or homeland invasions (illegal immigrants don't count), my daughter needs me as a father more than the navy needs me as a department head. I have yet to come across someone to continue calling my decision stupid after that. And really, what it comes down do is that people who think it's stupid to get out after 12, 14, 16+ years are just weak minded. They think in a single plane and cannot fathom working for themselves or being successfull without some company to back them up.
I've heard people say, "Do what you love and you'll never work a day in your life." Yea, what a crock! There will be some times that anything you do for a living will be work. It may be fun, but hard work and discipline doesn't just disappear from existence.
Yes, there are many friggin opportunities out there to be seized and even created.
Agreed. I'm lucky in that I got my current set of orders, a really good deal which doesn't happen often. That certainly helps to keep me sane for the moment. However, I'm in until almost 17 years via orders/contract. I think anytime after 15 years, it's tough to turn down a retirement check. That could be money for the daughter when she goes through school or can be used for investing or the house payment. It's like a 401k without putting money in, though broken up in payments over the rest of your life. However, looking at the potential of my brother-in-law and what I saw from the average take home in that business, is also hard to pass up (an average of about $400k/yr by the 3rd year). Though you work long hours every day, you're home and as long as you don't live beyond your means, life can be good financially. To live well and have your children live well is certainly a worthwhile goal. I've done in the Navy what I came in to do and if I they offered me an early retirement tomorrow, I'd take it in a heartbeat.