dont invite a lot of people?
or buy enough tshirts for everyone that comes?
Both..or neither. However you want to look at it.
His point was to not blow money on dumb shit while at OCS. You maybe need 2 class t-shirts and that is only so you don't have to do laundry everyday. You'll never wear them again after you get out. It's kind of like wearing your high school homecoming t-shirt in college. And, don't go buying t-shirts for your family, they won't care about it as soon as your graduation is over and they won't get whatever jokes you inserted into the picture.
And, if you invite every friend and family member to your Hi Moms then have them pay you back for their portion.
Down the road, you won't even remember your Hi Moms. Ours was at the Chiefs club in P-Cola. Nice, but not extravagant. Some douche had us all propose to his girlfriend on the dance floor. I guess he didn't have the sack to do it himself in private. Very ghey. That's about all I remember.
Moral of the story: Don't waste a ton of cash on your Hi Moms.