Some Clarification please
AW has been such a help and has calmed many nerves heading in to the process of applying to OCS... thanks. Being my first post, I'll write a quick bit about me. I am finishing my Master's degree and am waiting for my 6 month waiting period to come to a close... I had PRK done in early Jan (best thing I ever did for myself!!!). I am 24 and am intent on heading to OCS given that I am selected. I am applying for SNA first and only choice. Undergrad GPA - 3.3(Physical Geography) Graduate GPA - 3.8 (Geography). PRT: Run - 8:50, Sit-ups - 101, Push-ups - 60. Eagle Scout.
My questions. Now I realize that a search function does exist and can be found on the tool bar between 'quick links' and 'new posts', but I have done some searching, and to be honest, a thesis and 2 final papers are exhausting all my PC time at this point. Anyway, I am in a serious relationship, and my girlfriend (soon to be fiance... shhh) is excited, yes excited, about my interest in joining the Navy. Given a 'yes', it looks like we'd be married before an OCS start date. She is an attorney (just passed the FL bar), but isn't quite intent on practicing law in a firm at this point. Can somebody PLEASE give me (so I can give her) a quick, but detailed, outline about each phase of training from OCS to Advanced, and the 'rules' regarding spouses (married) living together. Now I realize that OCS is a different animal and we can't be living together (married or not... I think), but what about the other phases? And last, can somebody also provide an outline of the length of each phase and the possible locations? So far I am thinking that it goes something like this:
OCS - 12 Weeks in RI or FLA?
IFS - in Pcola (variable length)
API - 6 weeks in Pcola
Primary - length(?) in Texas or FLA?
Intermediate - length(?) and where(?)
Advanced - length(?) and where(?)
I know that location depends on what pipeline you're in, but info on how long each phase is would be helpful. I realize that her willingness to go through this with me is a sacrifice in terms of her own career, and I just want to provide her with some more detailed info as I would appreciate it if the tables were turned. I have read the posts about 'young' marriages here and heard the nay-sayer's bit... but I've been in quite a few relationships, and Navy or not, this girl's the one. Thanks in advance!
AW has been such a help and has calmed many nerves heading in to the process of applying to OCS... thanks. Being my first post, I'll write a quick bit about me. I am finishing my Master's degree and am waiting for my 6 month waiting period to come to a close... I had PRK done in early Jan (best thing I ever did for myself!!!). I am 24 and am intent on heading to OCS given that I am selected. I am applying for SNA first and only choice. Undergrad GPA - 3.3(Physical Geography) Graduate GPA - 3.8 (Geography). PRT: Run - 8:50, Sit-ups - 101, Push-ups - 60. Eagle Scout.
My questions. Now I realize that a search function does exist and can be found on the tool bar between 'quick links' and 'new posts', but I have done some searching, and to be honest, a thesis and 2 final papers are exhausting all my PC time at this point. Anyway, I am in a serious relationship, and my girlfriend (soon to be fiance... shhh) is excited, yes excited, about my interest in joining the Navy. Given a 'yes', it looks like we'd be married before an OCS start date. She is an attorney (just passed the FL bar), but isn't quite intent on practicing law in a firm at this point. Can somebody PLEASE give me (so I can give her) a quick, but detailed, outline about each phase of training from OCS to Advanced, and the 'rules' regarding spouses (married) living together. Now I realize that OCS is a different animal and we can't be living together (married or not... I think), but what about the other phases? And last, can somebody also provide an outline of the length of each phase and the possible locations? So far I am thinking that it goes something like this:
OCS - 12 Weeks in RI or FLA?
IFS - in Pcola (variable length)
API - 6 weeks in Pcola
Primary - length(?) in Texas or FLA?
Intermediate - length(?) and where(?)
Advanced - length(?) and where(?)
I know that location depends on what pipeline you're in, but info on how long each phase is would be helpful. I realize that her willingness to go through this with me is a sacrifice in terms of her own career, and I just want to provide her with some more detailed info as I would appreciate it if the tables were turned. I have read the posts about 'young' marriages here and heard the nay-sayer's bit... but I've been in quite a few relationships, and Navy or not, this girl's the one. Thanks in advance!

treated like one too. You are responsible to find your own place to live (on or off base), and what you do on your off time is your own business (unless you're breaking the law or making the Navy look bad in some way). You can live with your wife and you'll probably have plenty of time to spend together too. The A-pool (while waiting for IFS and later for API) rules change from time to time, but when I was there we showed up every morning to show our ID, then were free for the rest of the day. During API, Primary, etc. you'll be scheduled for classes/flights/etc., but the "scheduled" part of the day isn't usually more than 4 or 5 hours. You study on your own time (at home or wherever you want to), and it probably ranges anywhere from 1-10 hours per day depending on the person and where you are in the syllabus. The one exception is if you get Vance for Primary, then you get to deal with the Air Force 12 hours/day "study hall" BS. Don't get Vance.