From what I hear, SWO depends mainly on your wardroom. Look, you are going to get your *** chewed from time to time. Well, most of the time. My friends out of ROTC told me that they felt that it was not a day unless they got yelled at so expect that. SWO's eat their young. But if you look on the bright side, it will harden you if you can make it through. SWO's play a valuable role. Without them, I can't go flying so if you want to do it, God bless. You guys are stronger than me. The main difference between SWO and everything else is that unlike aviators and nukes, you go to the boat completely green. Pretty much all of your training is OJT. So, of course you will stumble. If you keep your eyes on the prize and have a good wardroom though, you will be fine. When I left my NRD where I worked for a year, SWO was closed. However, that can get fudged if the need arises so like those above said, keep submitting packages. You never know, you might get lucky.
Hope this helps,
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