OK, so I wasn't a SWO like Fester, and I don't have a way with words like him. But, I have cruised plenty and know or worked with more then a few SWOs. There is no way around it, the Surface Navy is very different then the Brown Shoe Navy. So, by definition, you get different experiences. If a guy wants the unique experience that comes with being a SWO, then let him. If you have been there, no problem telling a guy that you hated it and all. If you haven't been there and done that but have observed the lifestyle and don't like it, then sharing that might be useful. But hey, someone has to drive the ships and I don't see the point in assuming that a guy you don't know will hate his experience in the SWO community not knowing the type of ship he will serve on, who his leadership will be, where he will be home ported and what the fvck he wants out of his 5 years in the first place. Heck, he might just be the hard nosed, back stabbing, workaholic, prick that everyone here seems to think is always running the SWO Navy into the ground. That seems to me to be a good fit then. Why presuppose everyone will hate SWO just because we would or did hate it? And if the guy has signed papers and is getting on the bus you do him no good telling him now he made a mistake. There is just as good a chance you will turn it into a self fulfilling prophecy. The SWOs I knew would not hesitate to confirm it is more work then a typical operational tour as an aviator. That comes as no surprise to those of us that have been around. But aside from the work load (not everyone is as lazy as most aviators) most of the SWOs I knew found their experience useful and are proud of their service. True, many experienced poor leadership. But most also witnessed good leadership, sometimes in their own Chiefs. All found some satisfaction that could not have been found in the civilian sector, thus, SWO life gave them something worthwhile for their service they could not have found as civilians. Isn't that what most guys want out of their military service?