Was the femal SWO at least hot?
I don't tell my wife anything about things that don't involve me and only me when I'm on cruise. I told all of my new guys to do the same thing for their own good.
I don't do anything that my wife would care about. She doesn't care if I go to strip clubs or whatnot. I do have buds that are threatened with divorce for going to them, though.
I'm not going to lie to cover anybodys ass, but then again, it's not my place to tell anybody what I thought I saw somebody do, like talking up some nurse or dancing with some DODS teacher at the Kadena O-club. The time it takes for a wife to find out about things like that from Oki can be measured in hours, not days. Literally. Mostly it's BS.
We had a major wives club meltdown on my last cruise. Politics. I won't knock the whole system, though. My wife has had some great times and made some good freinds, but also had some really bad experiences. She leans away from the "knives club", but not completely. It's all squadron to squadron.