My dad is wanting me to join the AF not the Marines. He was a grunt in the first gulf war and says he wants me to use my brain and not pound dirt like he did. He keeps telling me about the easy life, the quick promotions, the planes, the quality of people, the short deployments, better living quarters, better food, relitive saftey(in comparison), etc.
He was an E-5 and his MOS was 0331.
Not to discredit anything that your father did, but I would say that a Sergeant who was a Machine Gunner probably doesn't know a whole lot about the "big picture" of the Navy/Marine Corps. Let's dissect his arguments:
Easy Life - Not neccessarily. As mentioned before, the Air Force is on an indefinite deployment cycle of x months on/x months off... Hardly easy.
Quick Promotions - The promotion rate for Air Force Officers is almost identical to that of other services.
The Planes - Like Heavies? Better chance of flying those in the AF, and I wouldn't wish helos on my worst enemy in the AF, since they're treated like second class citizens.
The Quality of People - I'm actually offended by this. A Sergeant with maybe 1, 2 Battalions TOPS in his career can speak to the 180,000+ people in the Marine Corps? Throw this one out. Great guys in the USN/USMC all around that I've seen. There's the occasional shitbag, but they're everywhere in life.
Short Deployments - True, but more of them.
Better Living Quarters - Can't really argue there, most people will agree that the AF values creature comforts over everything else.
Better Food - Again, he's a grunt and knows nothing of Marine Aviation. The food is pretty much the same all around. The DFAC that you will eat at in theatre is also where the AF, Army, and Navy eats... MREs, yes - they suck, but not as bad as when he was in.
Relative Safety - They still fly in a combat zone. Don't rule out that Marine and Navy F/A-18's are flying off the deck of a ship, which is actually probably safer living quarters than Kuwait, where the AF is flying out of.
Pound Dirt - Outside of TBS (6 months) and a FAC tour (1 year), as a Marine Pilot, you don't pound that much dirt.
Both of my grandfathers were in the Navy during Nom, but they aren't the beat help in this respect(they are both anti-war liberal dems and one of them was in flight school but was kicked out and served time in the brig). My dad and two of my uncles were in the Marines. One of them was in AF ROTC but refused his commission and transferred to the Marines. He made it all the way through flight school but refused his wings over a drunk grunt incident.
Again, not trying to be disrespectful of your elders, but I'd say that you don't have the best role models/advice providers in your family. Talk to recruiters, spend alot of time researching on AirWarriors, talk to anyone you can find that is on active duty. Then make your decision.