I started working with a recruiter around the same time as Spekkio and didn't run into any of those problems. I did go through 5 different recruiters, though. I had two up and retire on me without even telling me; one day the calls and e-mails just stopped. I wasn't aware until I talked to the Warrant in charge at the NRD HQ and he let me know. From my experience, officer recruiting for the Navy is a shitshow.
It often is a shit show, they started getting it on track when they had about half senior enlisted and half officers, officers tend to only have a 2 year tour and by the time they get the hang of it (6 months) they get about 1 good year in and then they are getting ready to leave. The benefit of having both officers and senior enlisted is that senior enlisted know a great deal of what a new officer will experience at their first command (aviation not generally included in this) so we can talk about the jobs and such, we work hand in hand with the officers that are also in recruiting so if anything comes up we don't know we can ask. When on recruiting the senior enlisted OR's and officer OR's are more like colleagues than officer and enlisted relationship or it used to be.
NRC decided to "make things better" or someone decided that since they were in charge they needed to "change things" and had officers be in charge of several recruiting stations and do officer recruiting so you can guess how much time they actually had.
They also decided to have many E-6's become officer recruiters, many of which left the fleet as an E-5 which means they really don't have a good concept of what an officer would do in the fleet.
so yes it has become a shit show.