I think people take the Officer First a little far, but I think it's an important idea to get across. Here's my logic: I joined the Navy because I wanted to fly. There's nothing wrong with that, but once you sign on the dotted line, you have to accept the fact that you made a committment, dare I say, an oath, to do the job asked. If you can swing it, hopefully that job is flying all the time, but if you're still contractually obligated to serve, you can't take your toys and go home and pout. I've always taken the mindset that the price of the Navy letting me fly is that I have to do paperwork and take care of my people that I've been tasked to lead. When I don't do the latter, it's completely understandable for the Navy to make me lose the right to the former. Maybe a little black and white, but you get the idea.
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Don't join the Navy (or the Marines) JUST so you can fly and assume everyone else will take care of the paperwork/ground stuff. Your squadronmates will loathe you and you'll quickly be considered a no-load. But if you do join, know you'll be able to fly in environments you generally won't see on the civilian side while flying hardware that you won't get to touch while a civilian.