Besides, no form of BC other than abstinence is truly 100% effective.
Besides, no form of BC other than abstinence is truly 100% effective.
You've got 10 years AD time...you tell me.
My bet is that sooner, rather than later, nature will take over and run its course and someone will either go on patrol and need medevac'd for an unknown prior pregnancy, or otherwise normal people will be placed in an extraordinary situation coupled with an unnatural amount of close contact and shit will happen, as it tends to.
Does it matter? You can't operate based on what should be happening, or what everyone should be doing.
You've got 10 years AD time...you tell me.
My bet is that sooner, rather than later, nature will take over and run its course and someone will either go on patrol and need medevac'd for an unknown prior pregnancy, or otherwise normal people will be placed in an extraordinary situation coupled with an unnatural amount of close contact and shit will happen, as it tends to.
I guess I've been tap dancing around this point/question: When women and men are together in any vessel and they understand the importance of the mission and the potential ramifications (for themselves, everyone else aboard, and the mission) of ignoring orders, are they capable of restraining themselves? If the honest answer is yes, then failure to exercise restraint should be a career-ender.
NOW, before everyone goes crazy on me talking about how we'd have no personnel left to drive da boats, think about the argument of "nature taking over," etc. We're not cave men and women anymore; we've developed impulse control. I know there will be arguments against that as well, but honestly, I'm surprised to see so much argument for the right (?) of people to have sex at inappropriate times and places.
And yes, Scoolbubba, in my time I have seen things that make me cringe, but what gets me more -- as I was trying to express above -- is the reluctance of leaders to pull the trigger in instances of blatant deployment dodging and orders violations in war zones.
EDIT: Croakerfish, I think you're right that we can't operate on what should be happening. My argument is if there was a real punishment for inability to control yourself, eventually the issue would become much, much less of an issue.
LOL I'm an equal opportunity hater.Why do you hate women?
Maybe the men on subs could buck tradition and say to the ladies "thanks, but no thanks," assuming they would even be coming on to the fellas. I dunno. I'm just trying to throw another angle into the discussion because normally the solutions just go straight to birth control or banning women rather than looking at the cause.
I guess I've been tap dancing around this point/question: When women and men are together in any vessel and they understand the importance of the mission and the potential ramifications (for themselves, everyone else aboard, and the mission) of ignoring orders, are they capable of restraining themselves? If the honest answer is yes, then failure to exercise restraint should be a career-ender.
NOW, before everyone goes crazy on me talking about how we'd have no personnel left to drive da boats, think about the argument of "nature taking over," etc. We're not cave men and women anymore; we've developed impulse control. I know there will be arguments against that as well, but honestly, I'm surprised to see so much argument for the right (?) of people to have sex at inappropriate times and places.
And yes, Scoolbubba, in my time I have seen things that make me cringe, but what gets me more -- as I was trying to express above -- is the reluctance of leaders to pull the trigger in instances of blatant deployment dodging and orders violations in war zones.
EDIT: Croakerfish, I think you're right that we can't operate on what should be happening. My argument is if there was a real punishment for inability to control yourself, eventually the issue would become much, much less of an issue.
+1Yea, no. If someone as career oriented as a prior 4 star Director of the CIA couldn't stay away from the honey pot, how do you think a 21 year old MM3 on a boomer who hasn't seen the sun but has seen his female shipmate every day underway is going to do?
So no man can refuse? I'm sure others would disagree.Yea, no. If someone as career oriented as a prior 4 star Director of the CIA couldn't stay away from the honey pot, how do you think a 21 year old MM3 on a boomer who hasn't seen the sun but has seen his female shipmate every day underway is going to do?
I was talking beyond obedience to regulations and trying to get more at ability to refuse for whatever reason. I'm well aware of what goes on and regulations that get flouted routinely.Wow man, the naïveté here is strong. Wait til you do a cruise... Or even go on det. It will open your eyes. The military is not some paragon of obedience to every regulation.
Okay. Message received.+1
It will only be a matter of time.
Awww, don't just give up, this discussion is very interesting to this old school 'Bubblehead'. DBF!Okay. Message received.
So no man can refuse? I'm sure others would disagree.
I was talking beyond obedience to regulations and trying to get more at ability to refuse for whatever reason. I'm well aware of what goes on and regulations that get flouted routinely.
They don't refuse on other ships why would this be any different? I'm not saying it will happen all the time, but it will happen.So no man can refuse? I'm sure others would disagree.
I was talking beyond obedience to regulations and trying to get more at ability to refuse for whatever reason. I'm well aware of what goes on and regulations that get flouted routinely.