Seriously??? That cannot be attributed as a female thing. That shit happens on both sides of the fence, and I would even argue it would be more so on the male side, because many of the women in the military get married to others in the military; therefore their BAH would not increase until they actually get a dependent, and even then it may be the other spouse that would claim the dependent.
Now that I think about it, the primary motive might just have been so they could move off-base. Still, it was marriage for the sake of an ancillary benefit and the point is the same. And the point, just to be clear, is that junior sailors regardless of rate, security clearance, or ASVAB score will do stupid shit that will have a direct impact on their ability to deploy.
The only necessary preventative action on pre-deployment/deployment pregnancy is education. If they still want to throw it away their career takes a hit/ give them the admin sep. Those who are truly valuable to the team will be in good health and ready to fight when the boat sets sail.
You are smart, but alsy young and naïve. We give pre-deployment education to sailors on all kinds of things. Where to go on liberty, STD's, don't do drugs, use sunblock, don't punch out the local cops, on, and on, and on. They still get in trouble, get the clap, flunk piss tests, get sunburned, and thrown in jail. If education is all it took, a division officer's job would be much easier.
Also, an Admin Seperation is not going to give the unit another useful sailor to pick up the slack. It may save BUMED a few nickels, but the command who needs to fill out it's watch bill is still fucked.
Is your wife an active duty servicemember? If she is then you would know that active duty wives with careers on their mind have a slightly different outlook on when and where to get pregnant.
Nope, civilian. FWIW, the best department head that I ever had (and one of the finest officers and aviators that I ever worked with/for) is a woman. I am not a member of the "He-Man Woman Haters Club" or anything like that. I respect that women have a lot to contribute. I have also seen the horrible effects on readiness that losing members to unplanned pregnancy (or just having sluts onboard the ship) can cause on a unit. I have seen female officers get tagged for IA's only to get knocked up and have that assignment go to a male officer. It didn't matter that his wife was expecting. That's fair?