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For the ladies - Female Perspective on Naval Officer Careers
- Thread starter maryhadalamb
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OK...What did I say before.….we don’t do thread derailment here at AW!
Background: graduated from a relatively small high school in the Southeast (~80 in graduating class)
Fast forward ~20 yrs, I'm stationed in SD, and at the squadron I get a cold call from my home area code, and answer. It's a girl I graduated with (ran in different circles at the time/barely spoke with her in HS). She tells me that she'll be in SD in a few weeks visiting a friend and would like to catch up. I said OK, sure, I guess.
Anyways, we meet up in Little Italy at a restaurant, just around the corner from my apt. Normal small talk ensues (did you hear about so-and-so, etc). Then it gets quiet, and she tells me the real reason she flew cross-country...(She's getting older and wants to have a child, and wants to know if I would be a donor...and that she's researched the legalities of it and how I could be not involved or involved as much as I want...and that it could be done via donor, or by natural means 🤷♀️ )
While this convo is happening, my brain is spinning on how to exit this situation cleanly without some weird scene happening...I basically told her that I'd think about it, and get back to her, bc I didn't want to trigger a public meltdown (I mean she flew across the country to obtain my seed)
Needless to say, it was one of the most bizarre encounters I've ever been a part of. 😄
Is she hot???
No. If so, I would have asked for the check and proceeded to practice sessions. 😃