So if i turn down selected for NFO that I personally didn't apply for. I wouldn't be able to reapply snow would I?
Not true. I got pro-rec Y for NFO at the November board last year and turned it down for personal reasons, reapplied at this board and got selected. Having a recruiter put it on your app without your consent should be a no brainer for the board. There are of course no guarantees, but if you explain the situation in your professional statement, you have a non-zero chance of being selected. I believe others on this forum have been in your situation, reapplied, and got picked up for SNA.
One thing I will say though is if you want a guaranteed shot at flying in the Navy, you should take your pro-rec Y for SNFO and run with it. If you turn it down you will never be considered for SNFO again. If you consider that risk and still want to explain your case and go for SNA, then find a new recruiter and go for it.