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24MAY2021 Pilot/NFO Board

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Tgonzo29

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Mike D. said:
I just got engaged in December. That shits going on the back back burner if a pro rec comes in lol
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Dude, my gf is pushing hard for a ring and everything that comes after that right now. I can't do that until I get a pro rec Y and she doesn't get it. Can't really focus on that stuff once that comes full scope. Dealing with this 100% right now. Its hard. Shows the sacrifices we have to make in order to have this career. When I found out my package would be pushed to august instead of may, she was super upset.
 
villo0692

villo0692

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Tgonzo29 said:
Dude, my gf is pushing hard for a ring and everything that comes after that right now. I can't do that until I get a pro rec Y and she doesn't get it. Can't really focus on that stuff once that comes full scope. Dealing with this 100% right now. Its hard. Shows the sacrifices we have to make in order to have this career. When I found out my package would be pushed to august instead of may, she was super upset.
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It’s your life dude...no one else’s
 
Oski510

Oski510

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Tgonzo29 said:
Dude, my gf is pushing hard for a ring and everything that comes after that right now. I can't do that until I get a pro rec Y and she doesn't get it. Can't really focus on that stuff once that comes full scope. Dealing with this 100% right now. Its hard. Shows the sacrifices we have to make in order to have this career. When I found out my package would be pushed to august instead of may, she was super upset.
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Damn I’m sorry bro. Thankfully my fiancé never even brought it up that she wanted me to propose. It was something that I organically came to want. Made it even more special when she said yes. Afterwords she told me she wanted me to propose but didn’t want to steer me in a direction I didn’t want to go. Anyway, proposing won’t really change anything until you start planning a wedding, which can be put on hold. But just make sure you do what you want.
 
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Tgonzo29

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Oski510 said:
Damn I’m sorry bro. Thankfully my fiancé never even brought it up that she wanted me to propose. It was something that I organically came to want. Made it even more special when she said yes. Afterwords she told me she wanted me to propose but didn’t want to steer me in a direction I didn’t want to go. Anyway, proposing won’t really change anything until you start planning a wedding, which can be put on hold. But just make sure you do what you want.
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Thats the hard part right now, but its clear and i know where my focus must be. She actually decided to take a break because of it. I've been in this process since early covid and she thinks my life is on hold and doesn't like it. We are both 30 and she wants to check certain boxes off by the time she reaches a certain age. I think its hard for them to realize that guys need (or should have) a foundation before any of those things can come. Just a challenge to deal with. c'est la vie. oh well
 
Mike D.

Mike D.

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villo0692 said:
It’s your life dude...no one else’s
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Oski510 said:
Damn I’m sorry bro. Thankfully my fiancé never even brought it up that she wanted me to propose. It was something that I organically came to want. Made it even more special when she said yes. Afterwords she told me she wanted me to propose but didn’t want to steer me in a direction I didn’t want to go. Anyway, proposing won’t really change anything until you start planning a wedding, which can be put on hold. But just make sure you do what you want.
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Both of these...100%. If she isn't behind you now, she isn't going to be during grueling curriculum and studying..or deployments.
 
Oski510

Oski510

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Tgonzo29 said:
Thats the hard part right now, but its clear and i know where my focus must be. She actually decided to take a break because of it. I've been in this process since early covid and she thinks my life is on hold and doesn't like it. We are both 30 and she wants to check certain boxes off by the time she reaches a certain age. I think its hard for them to realize that guys need (or should have) a foundation before any of those things can come. Just a challenge to deal with. c'est la vie. oh well
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hey you can’t control what boxes she can check or not. A relationship isn’t all about what one person wants to do by a certain age. It’s about being there for each other through the ups and downs. I hope it works out for you both but I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again a million times, things happen for a reason. Sometimes you just need to ride the wave and go with the flow and eventually you’ll find your way as long as you have plans and goals.
 
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