The way CNATRA announced it to us definitely left a poor taste in our mouths... If anything I think IP's...
Fair enough, and everybody wearing wings was standing in your shoes at one time or another.
For IPs it is
very personal but not in the way you might think. We want you to be as good as you possibly can, but if you can't possibly be good enough then we don't want you to fail at the mission, crash, or get yourself or others killed.
Speaking for myself- I knew what most of my onwings' primary NSS would be, within about a 5 point spread, as we were taxiing in from Fam 1. I treated them all the same- challenge them as much as possible on each flight in a way that would make them get better as fast as possible.
If you haven't had an award talk with you owning (or your flight leader, class advisor, etc.) then just keep your head down, do your best, and don't sweat the grades (same advice they gave you on day 1). If you have had that awkward talk, then ask for as much help as possible- you may yet be cut out for this business but there's a good chance you're doing something wrong with your studying and preparation. When a student is doing their best
but they don't meet the standard because they are simply cut out for success elsewhere, I still have the greatest respect for that individual as a patriot. When students are bordering on failure but they are doing their best, then I'm very inclined to help them out as much as the rules allow (and the rules allow quite a lot).