But compared to someone living in poverty attending a terrible public school with parents working three jobs to survive it is very much a different experience.
My Dad worked 12 hour days and my Mom worked most of my childhood so we could afford things and to pay college tuition.
My high score was a terrible intercity ghetto high school that gave out passing grades if you showed up for class and if you passed every class for 3 years, you graduated after 3 years. Most who graduated still took 4 and many 5, if they graduated at all. I know shitty public schools. But if you wanted to learn, there were teachers who cared and you could still get a good education.
Yes I had it easier than many but my point in all this is that there are opportunities for everyone willing to take responsibility for themselves. While there is definitely racism, it’s from people no longer systemic from the government or industry. The opportunity is there for anyone with the drive and desire - and willing to drop the victim mentality and adopt self responsibility.
You obviously taken responsibility for your life to get where you are but you still want to be a victim.