1. The XO/CO of the ENTERPRISE fucked up when he made the vids ... and, in point of fact, the choice of 'humor' displayed in the vids really wasn't really all that 'funny' ... + ... he left a trail and opened the door to put himself on report. I don't care whether or not YOU are an OUTSTANDING leader, an average one, or someone who's substandard but has been covering his/her shortcomings and hasn't been 'outed' as of yet. If/when you EVER do that (put yourself on report), you're a goddamn fool ...
I never understood the mindset of 'leaders' who felt the need to be 'buddies' w/ the troops ... there's something's missing here. You're either a leader or you are not. That doesn't mean you can't stand up for your guys -- to the death -- and support them. I found my point of view validated over and over and over in many ways & on many days ...
Believe it.
2. You fellows who participate in 'social networks' are fools. Someday, it's going to bite you in the ass. These internet creations are UN-professional -- for professionals -- and they represent a desperate, needy, attention-whore segment of our 'society' ... they are NOT worthy of 'professionals'.
Believe it.
3. If you don't like the ever-changing nature of "what's acceptable conduct" in the USN ... then you need to consider other venues for a permanent vocation. THE NAVY ALWAYS EATS ITS OWN ... always has, always will. If/when the shit hits the fan -- THE NAVY WILL NOT BACK YOU UP. It hasn't historically, why do you think it would in a PC world ... ???
Believe it.
4. If you can eat shit, compromise your innate instincts which brought YOU to the 'warrior' lifestyle in the first place, and howl at the moon ... then stay in, become a 'manager', and learn the joys of the bureaucratic PC lifestyle in a blue uniform w/ gold buttons, by all means.
5. If you can't eat shit -- won't compromise your basic instincts -- and you don't/won't howl at the moon -- then vote with your feet.
You cannot and WILL NOT change the 'beast' while you're in the belly of the beast. Those of you who think you can 'change the system' from within are dreamers, idealists, or just plain naive. To remain in the system when you don't agree w/ it shows your 'handlers' that you WILL go along, get along. You give them breathing space. That's all the further they think ...
The ONLY time you can make a difference AND change policy is when you 'get their attention' ... as in when 80% + of squadron LTs were GETTIN' OUT in the Carter years. The military-Regan years profited from 'our' taking a principled stand.
Believe it.
6. And ... you are welcome.
7. Hey you kids! Get off my lawn!
Believe it.
#1 and #3 I'm with you on. The rest, not so much.
As far as the social network stuff, there are people who abuse them or are stupid about how they use them, but they're useful and valuable for a lot of good reasons. There's nothing wrong with letting the grandparents see pictures of the little ones via Facebook. It's also a useful tool to keep in touch with family members one wouldn't normally see, or to get back in touch with high school classmates or whatever. Just because you're not into that doesn't make it wrong, or make those who do it attention whores. If you post pictures of yourself puking on your shoes, well, you'll get what you deserve then. Like nuclear power, social networks have good uses and bad uses.
If voting with your feet has made you happy, then fine. Like I said before, EVERYONE, civilian and military, does this. You don't like your workplace, then quit. People do that in every occupation. No skin off my back. However, it seems like you're saying that everyone who stays is "eating shit," or selling out to the man or some such. Some undoubtedly are. Others though, would rather be flying LAT, or dropping bombs, or landing in LZs than going to "the Show" that you hold up as the apex of aviation. In a few years, maybe I'll be trying to do that too, but for right now, I see very few 747s flying low-level on NVGs into desert LZs, so I'll stick with Uncle a little longer. It doesn't mean that I'm selling out or compromising my integrity.
Somebody has to defend this country of ours. The problems our military has now don't even compare to those experienced between WWI and II. A lot of good people were forced out or left because it sucked. But, some good men stuck it out in spite of it all, and we're lucky they did. Eisenhower, Patton, and MacArthur, to name a few.
Some people will say "no mas" and elect to leave. I have nothing against that. Others will say that they like their job in spite of the downsides. Maybe they like being in the military. Maybe they want to serve. Maybe they just like playing with the baddest toys on the playground. They're only selling out if they allow themselves to.
A good portion of our military leadership is wanting.
I just have to be happy with the leadership that
I am providing. Knowing the state of the airline industry, a good percentage of the leadership there isn't so hot, either. Maybe you and your brethren need to quit your jobs in protest. Most don't though, do they? They stay because they like the hours, the lifestyle, and especially the seniority they've earned. Maybe it's not as different on that side of the fence as you might think.