Patmack18 said:This is probably the best statement in this thread and the best arguement for not having women in combat. By combat, I mean on the ground, slinging bullets in downtown somewhere Iraq. Pick your battle. Why do you think we have different standards for PFT/PFA's. Woman just CAN NOT perform on the same level as men.
Clux4 said:I just have one last thing to say, how many of you were pleased with the Jessica Lynch incident ?
kevin said:the problem is, i dont think there ARE many facts. im not disagreeing with you about growing pains, but i doubt you'd find many people who believe aviation is less effective now because we have women in that community. how do you know it would be any different with any other community? and i realize fraternization happens (both in civilian and military), but i dont see this as a good enough reason to keep fully qualified women from engaging in a community. if these problems occur, maybe there are some MEN (and women as well) who shouldnt be there. as far as civilian environments, i agree with you...but would point out that it's already happened. just look at women in firefighting, law-enforcement, construction, etc. also keep in mind that most of those environments have SEPERATE physical standards for men and women. im talking about military units where physical standards are identical.
manny7_99 said:Engine girl, you say Jessica Lynch doesnt represent all women. Guess what, NO WOMAN DOES. Why should we change the law for that, may be 1%, that may be able to keep up with the operational tempo and lifestyle? Also, why should we filter out that majority of male GIs, that though not bright, moral or ethical, get the job done and are willing to risk their life for our country. Guess what guys, if those dudes are willing to put their lifes on the line for our nation I dont care about where they put their "winkies." If you want respect, fairness and etiquette, try diplomacy. Last time I checked, that was the place to be nice.Remember that the military back in the day use to be a bunch of criminals, it has change over time, but the best fighters are those who want to fight (being redundant here.) Dont get me wong, I am TOTALLY against rapes and women abuse, like it happened in Panama; but stuff happens. Life is not perfect, war is definitely not fair or nice (people die remember?), yet that's what the military is designed for, to go to war when needed and defend our nation and values. Give me a good argument for sacrificing a great number of Male GIs for may be a couple females that can do the job. Do that and I'll respect your opinion. Otherwise, please dont keep on making "progressive" arguments plz (i.e. Is not fair, I dont like that, we are equal, there is a tiny percentage who are superwomen,etc, and all that bluffing.) About the nose-breaking incident with your bf, He was either "wimpy", a "gentleman" that wasn't gonna fight back or a mixture of both. Try doing that to somebody who doesnt really have any attachments to you (random Infantry guy) and tell me what you would do when he puts a blade to your neck. Lastly, I'd like to see you in an Infantry unit for a day or in Jessica's situation( Not literally, I really wouldnt want anyone in that situation) and see how you would handle it.
EngineGirl said:If you want to attack me personally and call me out, thats fine. I never, ever said that we should sacrifice many great male GI's so that a few women can get the job. Did you not read earlier where I said that I don't think women should be in that job to begin with. And when it comes to my ex-fiance, you don't know the situation (and I was just putting that up for the guy who gave me the negative rep points yet lacked the balls to put there name on it). And is for doing that to someone who doesn't have any personal connections to me, I would never, ever hit someone unless it was an extreme situation (and that was). You don't know me and you don't know where I come from or what I've been through, so don't assume I would act a certain way in a situation. And please, if you have a personal attack on me, I'd prefer it if you PM'd it to me.
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Cate said:Although I disagree with just about everything that Manny says and most of the things that he's thinking, I do agree that no one is going to change anyone else's mind on this particular topic.